Jew Dat: Navigating Jewish Life In New Orleans
Growing up in the suburbs of Chicago, I never felt like it was difficult to be Jewish. I was fortunate enough to attend Jewish day school from kindergarten through high school. Every Saturday, I walked five minutes from my house to synagogue with my family. I had a dozen kosher restaurants to choose from or I could easily find vegetarian options in non-kosher restaurants. My Jewish friends, while they were not observant themselves, enjoyed coming over and hanging out at my house almost every Saturday afternoon. And I lived in a neighborhood with lots of families like mine where we shared many Shabbat meals and relaxing Shabbatot together.
Since leaving home, the only other places I have lived for a significant period of time were Israel and New York City, two places that provide a multitude of communities, restaurants, and synagogues from which to choose.
I have to say that New Orleans is the most exciting city I’ve lived in yet. It’s a beautiful city. I love the oak trees, friendliness of people on the street, warm weather, festivals, music, new places to explore, and genuine connection people feel to this unique city. All those things being said, one of the more challenging components of living in New Orleans for me is being Jewish. Rather than having an unlimited number of synagogues to choose from, I have five, only one of them being a conservative congregation, which is the most comfortable congregation for me. For the first time since I was 14, I have to drive to shul each week, which is another change. Instead of feeling confident that I will find something to eat when I go out to restaurants with friends, I’m constantly questioning what is in my food and wondering if my seemingly vegetarian dish is made with a meat or seafood base. And it’s not because I’m picky, it’s because this city loves to put meat and seafood in everything. For the first time, I also feel that I’m in a position where I need to explain my Jewish values and beliefs to those around me, including my housemates and co-workers. I don’t mean this in a negative way; in fact, I think it’s an important process for me to experience.
While being Jewish in the city of New Orleans isn’t always easy for me, I’ve found the Jewish community here to be intimate in a completely different way than it was in New York City, Chicago, or Israel. And that’s something I love about New Orleans. The first time I walked into Shir Chadash, the Conservative synagogue in Metairie, multiple people came up to me, introduced themselves, asked what I was doing in New Orleans, and welcomed me into their community.
I was even given an aliyah to the Torah! I also love that I’ve met almost all of the rabbis in New Orleans whether they are Orthodox, Reform, or Conservative. I think it’s amazing that Beth Israel, the Orthodox synagogue, and Gates Of Prayer, a Reform Temple, share the same building and are creating a park for their children to play in together. Recently, there was a lecture series about the Jewish perspective on life after death where three rabbis, one Reform, one Conservative, and one Orthodox came together to teach the community. Something that turned me away from places like New York City was the lack of dialogue and unity within the larger Jewish community. The New Orleans Jewish community may be small, but it has a unique intimacy that New York City lacks.
Despite the challenges of being Jewish in New Orleans, there is something special about it too. Even with these obstacles, I feel valuable in this community. While Jewish life in New York City seems convenient and easy, for now, I’m enjoying the struggle here. Because beneath that struggle, lies a Jewish community that functions as a cohesive whole, supports groups within it, and values each individual and what I have to offer.






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